Tired of London, Tired of Life

According to Dorothy there is no place like home… But what is a home, for a gypsy like me? Is it the place where I was born? The place where I grew up? Is it where my suitcase is? Or is it simply where the heart is?

After years of travelling I have learned that home is a very relative, malleable concept. Some days I wake up pining after China and the thought of smog filling my lungs with every breath fills me with not only hazardous toxins, but also indescribable joy. Other days I think of my grandparents’ cooking and want nothing more than a plane ticket to Bohemia. But most days, lately anyway, I wake up extremely content. I am back in London, the city of my dreams, and for the first time in many months I feel like I am where I belong.

Nowhere is this more apparent than in my outfit choices. In Russia I hid underneath layers of fur and large shawls. In Morocco I tried my best to blend in with earthy tones and modest necklines. In Beijing… well, fine – in Beijing I dressed like the silly bean I am. But in London I am truly back in my element – this is the one place where nobody judges me for my eccentricity. If home really is where the heart is, I am happy to say that I am finally back home.

“Why, Sir, you find no man, at all intellectual, who is willing to leave London. No, Sir, when a man is tired of London, he is tired of life; for there is in London all that life can afford.” -Samuel Johnson

buckingham palace big ben british buckingham palace statue buckingham palace fashion style big ben british photo boots buckingham palace fashion buckingham palace portrait big ben britain fashion buckingham palace british

coat: zara; boots: tamaris; bag: bata; sweater: ravi famous; dress: romwe

Do you agree that home is where the heart is? Where do you feel most at home? Is this reflected in the way you dress?

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  • Hi Sabina! What you say is true. London is an eclectic city where you can freely wear your ‘heart’ on your sleeve and just be happy. 🙂 Happy travelling!

  • Oooh I absolutely love the quote by Samuel Johnson! (I also read Samuel Jackson the first time around and thought WOW THAT ACTOR IS DEEP hahaha) But nonetheless, it’s spot on and I can 100% identify myself with it!
    And I absolutely love your outfit girly, we should grab a coffee sometime, whilst we are both still here – lots of love xx

    Tanya | Miss Favitta

  • Hi Sabina,

    Great shots!

    For me, wherever I feel most in my element is home. Yep, where the heart is. I enjoy Bali and Thailand more than any place on earth because when the plane lands I get that excited feeling, and I know this is where I am meant to be. Sometimes I dream of other spots but whenever I’m in Ubud, or Chiang Mai, or most spots in both places I feel like I’m home, and contented.

    As for dress, I’m more of a traveler/t-shirt-shorts-flip flops chic guy but I do hear you on clothing/fashion. I go simple, but I so appreciate Bali and Thailand because I can wear casual stuff, and dress less conservative i most spots, without drawing attention. Sure some locals may not appreciate this – like anywhere on earth – but more locals in Bali and Thailand won’t mind seeing a guy with a tank top, or his shirt off, when by the beach.

    In other places, where I think a bit more about fitting in, well, I don’t feel as at home because I can’t go casual as easily. I fully respect their rules, but I can see why you’d dig a place like London. Anywhere works for me, if it’s a spot where you can feel comfortable in your own skin and the locals won’t bat an eye at this.

    Thanks Sabina.

    Tweeting soon.


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